Is the idea of sex and intimacy something that really excites you?
- Not really, I actually get excited about cuddling and sometimes kissing though.
- Yes definitely. Sex is something which really excites me regardless of who it's with, just the idea of it is good.
- No, nothing like this excites me at all, it all seems boring and unnecessary.
- Sometimes, but only with someone whom I've formed a deep emotional bond with.
- My days differ. Sometimes I feel excited about it, other times I really don't care
Do you develop crushes on people of your preferred gender?
- Yes, however I never had sexual feelings towards this person, it was based on appearance and/or personality.
- Yes, at first it was only based on their appearance/personality, but once I got to know them better, I began to feel sexual feelings towards them also.
- Yes, in some cases I never developed sexual feelings towards them, but other times I have felt sexual feelings towards them instantly.
- No, I've never had a crush on anybody that I know of, or can remember.
- Yes, and in most cases I also develop sexual feelings towards them instantly.
What would be your ideal relationship as far as intimacy is concerned?
- I think sex is a very important part of a relationship, I would very much like to be intimate with my partner on a regular basis (when my partner is ready of course).
- To be honest, I don't see myself with anybody relationship-wise. I prefer the company of some really good friends, or just being on my own.
- Just being with the person I really like, I don't feel the need to have sex or do anything overly intimate on my part. Cuddling and kissing is enough for me.
- If I got to know my partner really well on an emotional level, I'd eventually like to take that next step into intimacy, including things like cuddling, kissing, sex etc.
- Sometimes my feelings fluctuate between wanting to only just cuddle and kiss on a ongoing basis, whereas sometimes I really would like to be more intimate and do more sexual things.
Have you ever had sex before?
- Yes, but it was with somebody whom I really loved, so I found it quite enjoyable.
- I haven't had sex yet.
- Yes, however my emotions on sex differ each time, sometimes I really love and enjoy it, other times I find it boring.
- Yes, sex is pleasurable for me if I am physically attracted to the person I'm doing it with, regardless of our emotional bond.
- Yes, but I only did it to please the other person, I found it to be boring.
Does looking at a naked picture of a aesthetically attractive person of your preferred gender aroused or excite you?
- For the most part, yes it would.
- Not at all, they would look better with their clothes on.
- Never at all, in fact I don't find anyone aesthetically attractive.
- If it's a picture of my lover, then possibly, otherwise not really
- Depends on my mood. Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
Hypothetically, if you were to never have sex (regardless if you're a virgin or not) ever again what would be your initial reaction?
- Needless to say, this wouldn't bother me in the slightest, in fact, romance is probably something I could live without as well.
- I'd be devastated! Sex is very important to me and I simply could not live without it.
- For me it would depend. The idea of never being intimate again probably wouldn't be so bad, then again who knows if I would change my mind at some point and want to do it?
- It wouldn't bother me at all if I didn't have any deep emotional connections with someone, otherwise, I'd be disheartened at the idea of not being intimate with the person I really loved.
- I wouldn't have a problem with that at all, as long as I can still cuddle and kiss I don't care.
Do you masturbate? If so, what kinds of thoughts go through your mind?
- Sometimes I'll think about someone I find attractive sexually, other times I'll think about something random and whatever thoughts cross my mind.
- If I've developed a deep and emotional bond with someone I love, sometimes I'll think about them, their body etc. Otherwise, just whatever thoughts come into my mind
- Nothing in particular, just whatever thoughts come into my mind, nobody specific
- Usually, I'll think about someone who I find sexually arousing, maybe I'll look at pictures of naked men / women who turn me on.
- I don't masturbate (or tried it once-twice and didn't care for it)
If you had to choose between eating a delicious dessert of your choice, or having hot sex, which would you pick?
- I'd rather eat oatmeal than have "hot sex" with someone, so yeah, pass the sweets
- If I wasn't in a deep and emotional relationship with my awesome S.O, I'd choose the dessert, otherwise, hot sex please!
- The dessert, duh, *drools*
- Well, obviously I'm going to pick the hot sex ;)
- Depends entirely what mood I was in at the time, so I'm not too sure.
Do you like kissing?
- Yes it's alright, but I only prefer closed mouth.
- Depends on my mood, sometimes I get really into it, open mouthed and everything, other times I just prefer closed mouthed and gentle.
- Yes, kissing is exciting for me, I love all types of kissing, lip biting and sucking etc.
- I really enjoy it and get into it deeply if it's with someone I have a deep connection with only.
- No, the idea of me kissing someone doesn't appeal to me at all.