The Asexuality Quiz

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Question 1/9

Is the idea of sex and intimacy something that really excites you?

Not really, I actually get excited about cuddling and sometimes kissing though.
Yes definitely. Sex is something which really excites me regardless of who it's with, just the idea of it is good.
No, nothing like this excites me at all, it all seems boring and unnecessary.
Sometimes, but only with someone whom I've formed a deep emotional bond with.
My days differ. Sometimes I feel excited about it, other times I really don't care

Question 2/9

Do you develop crushes on people of your preferred gender?

Yes, however I never had sexual feelings towards this person, it was based on appearance and/or personality.
Yes, at first it was only based on their appearance/personality, but once I got to know them better, I began to feel sexual feelings towards them also.
Yes, in some cases I never developed sexual feelings towards them, but other times I have felt sexual feelings towards them instantly.
No, I've never had a crush on anybody that I know of, or can remember.
Yes, and in most cases I also develop sexual feelings towards them instantly.

Question 3/9

What would be your ideal relationship as far as intimacy is concerned?

I think sex is a very important part of a relationship, I would very much like to be intimate with my partner on a regular basis (when my partner is ready of course).
To be honest, I don't see myself with anybody relationship-wise. I prefer the company of some really good friends, or just being on my own.
Just being with the person I really like, I don't feel the need to have sex or do anything overly intimate on my part. Cuddling and kissing is enough for me.
If I got to know my partner really well on an emotional level, I'd eventually like to take that next step into intimacy, including things like cuddling, kissing, sex etc.
Sometimes my feelings fluctuate between wanting to only just cuddle and kiss on a ongoing basis, whereas sometimes I really would like to be more intimate and do more sexual things.

Question 4/9

Have you ever had sex before?

Yes, but it was with somebody whom I really loved, so I found it quite enjoyable.
I haven't had sex yet.
Yes, however my emotions on sex differ each time, sometimes I really love and enjoy it, other times I find it boring.
Yes, sex is pleasurable for me if I am physically attracted to the person I'm doing it with, regardless of our emotional bond.
Yes, but I only did it to please the other person, I found it to be boring.

Question 5/9

Does looking at a naked picture of a aesthetically attractive person of your preferred gender aroused or excite you?

For the most part, yes it would.
Not at all, they would look better with their clothes on.
Never at all, in fact I don't find anyone aesthetically attractive.
If it's a picture of my lover, then possibly, otherwise not really
Depends on my mood. Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

Question 6/9

Hypothetically, if you were to never have sex (regardless if you're a virgin or not) ever again what would be your initial reaction?

Needless to say, this wouldn't bother me in the slightest, in fact, romance is probably something I could live without as well.
I'd be devastated! Sex is very important to me and I simply could not live without it.
For me it would depend. The idea of never being intimate again probably wouldn't be so bad, then again who knows if I would change my mind at some point and want to do it?
It wouldn't bother me at all if I didn't have any deep emotional connections with someone, otherwise, I'd be disheartened at the idea of not being intimate with the person I really loved.
I wouldn't have a problem with that at all, as long as I can still cuddle and kiss I don't care.

Question 7/9

Do you masturbate? If so, what kinds of thoughts go through your mind?

Sometimes I'll think about someone I find attractive sexually, other times I'll think about something random and whatever thoughts cross my mind.
If I've developed a deep and emotional bond with someone I love, sometimes I'll think about them, their body etc. Otherwise, just whatever thoughts come into my mind
Nothing in particular, just whatever thoughts come into my mind, nobody specific
Usually, I'll think about someone who I find sexually arousing, maybe I'll look at pictures of naked men / women who turn me on.
I don't masturbate (or tried it once-twice and didn't care for it)

Question 8/9

If you had to choose between eating a delicious dessert of your choice, or having hot sex, which would you pick?

I'd rather eat oatmeal than have "hot sex" with someone, so yeah, pass the sweets
If I wasn't in a deep and emotional relationship with my awesome S.O, I'd choose the dessert, otherwise, hot sex please!
The dessert, duh, *drools*
Well, obviously I'm going to pick the hot sex ;)
Depends entirely what mood I was in at the time, so I'm not too sure.

Question 9/9

Do you like kissing?

Yes it's alright, but I only prefer closed mouth.
Depends on my mood, sometimes I get really into it, open mouthed and everything, other times I just prefer closed mouthed and gentle.
Yes, kissing is exciting for me, I love all types of kissing, lip biting and sucking etc.
I really enjoy it and get into it deeply if it's with someone I have a deep connection with only.
No, the idea of me kissing someone doesn't appeal to me at all.

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Asexual Orientation Quiz

Asexual people, though lacking sexual attraction to any gender, might engage in purely romantic relationships, while others might not. Researchers generally define asexuality as the lack of sexual attraction or the lack of sexual interest, but their definitions vary; they may use the term "to refer to individuals with low or absent sexual desire or attractions, low or absent sexual behaviors, exclusively romantic non-sexual partnerships, or a combination of both absent sexual desires and behaviors". Self-identification as asexual may also be a determining factor.