By BrainFall Staff - Updated: March 15, 2024
Do you try on an outfit and feel like you look amazing in it right away? Or is the first thing you think about how you don’t like how it looks on you? Do you feel like you’re mature enough to handle situations? Or do you waffle on whether or not you’re good enough to take care of it?
If you picked the second answer to those two questions, you’re probably an insecure person. There are many levels of insecurity, and everyone can have a specific thing they are insecure about. Their appearance, their intelligence, their social skills, or their wealth are all things people can be unsure about.
The biggest insecurity someone has tends to make them feel self-conscious and lack confidence. They likely have low self-esteem and are desperate for other people’s opinions to validate how they are feeling. If you feel insecure, you have to dig deep to come out of it. But everyone feels insecure sometimes. Do you know whether or not you’re insecure? Take this quiz to find out.
The feeling of insecurity is one where you lack self-esteem about something particular. You may not feel that your self-worth is high and you may deal with social anxiety. Some people that are insecure avoid contact with others. An insecure person could try and be a people pleaser to overcome it.
If you're not feeling confident in your abilities about something, you may lose eye contact or worry that what you're doing doesn't matter. Most people are unsure about something in life. A lot of people have multiple insecurities and don't feel safe in the relationship they have with themselves.
Your friends likely have multiple insecurities too. Working on their lives can be a way for them to understand just how to take care of their insecurities. Insecurity can show its head at times that you least expect, like if someone puts you down about something that you normally felt confident in.